What is domestic abuse?

The cross-government definition of domestic abuse is:

“Any incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive, threatening behaviour, violence or abuse between those aged 16 or over who are, or have been, intimate partners or family members regardless of gender or sexuality.”

Domestic abuse does not discriminate. It can happen to anyone — regardless of age, gender, race, sexuality, religion, ability, or income. Abuse is rarely a one-off event; it often follows a pattern of escalating control and intimidation.

Although domestic abuse doesn’t discriminate, it is important to recognise that it is a gendered crime which is deeply rooted in the Societal inequality between women and men. It takes place ‘because she is a woman and happens disproportionately to women’ (United Nations (UN) Declaration on the elimination of violence against women 1993)

Domestic abuse can include (but is not limited to):

  • Psychological abuse – Manipulation, gaslighting, isolation from loved ones
  • Physical abuse – Hitting, slapping, restraining, or other forms of physical violence
  • Sexual abuse – Unwanted sexual activity, coercion, or assault within a relationship
  • Financial abuse – Controlling money, denying access to finances, sabotaging employment
  • Emotional abuse – Belittling, threats, verbal attacks, intimidation
  • Controlling or Coercive Behaviour – Legally recognised as abuse under the Serious Crime Act 2015
  • Post-Separation abuse – Ongoing abuse through stalking, child contact, legal harassment

If you think you are experiencing domestic abuse, contact us for support and talk to a domestic abuse advisor at TDAS.

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0161 872 7368

How TDAS can support you

At TDAS, we offer free, confidential support to anyone experiencing domestic abuse. Our Domestic Abuse advisors will listen without judgement and work with you to understand your situation and your options. We can support you with safety planning, accessing refuge accommodation, legal options and connecting you with other services. You don’t have to go through this alone – we’re here when you’re ready!

Confidentiality & your safety

Your safety is our priority. Any information you share with us is treated confidentially, and we will not share it without your consent unless there are serious concerns about safety. We will always work with you in a way that feels safe and supportive.

How to access support

You can be referred by a professional (e.g. GP, housing officer, social worker) or you can contact us directly to discuss whether the service is right for you.

You don’t have to go through this alone – our team is here to help you feel safe, supported and heard.

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